Raven LeFebvre, LCSW, LCSW-C, LICSW, MAC
​Certified Clinical Trauma Professional Level 2 (CCTP-II)
PDA North America Level 1 Certified Clinician
Owner and Founder, Silhouette Psychotherapy PLLC​​
In clinical practice for 22 years​
​Serving NC, MD, VT, MA, MN, PA, VA, FL, SC, DE, ID and UT
© 2024–2026 Raven LeFebvre. All rights reserved.
Neurodivergence Affirming Therapist
Neurodivergence-affirming trauma-informed compassionate psychotherapy and assessment services offered via telehealth across the following states: North Carolina, Maryland, Vermont, Massachusetts, Minnesota, Pennsylvania, Florida, Virginia, South Carolina, Delaware, Idaho, Utah
Raven LeFebvre, LCSW, LCSW-C, LICSW, MAC
Certified Clinical Trauma Professional Level 2 (CCTP-II)
PDA North America Level 1 Certified Clinician
Autism, ADHD, AuDHD Assessments | Therapy Intensives | Clinical Consultation & Clinical Training
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As a Neurodivergent Affirming Therapist, I have been practicing for 22 years and embrace neurodiversity. My approach to therapy is compassion-focused, trauma-informed and neurodivergence-affirming.
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Whether you are seeking an assessment or are seeking psychotherapy - feel free to reach out and we can explore whether or not it feels like a good fit for you and you'd like to work together.
I am an independently licensed clinician offering telehealth psychotherapy sessions across NC, MD, VT, MA, PA, MN, FL, VA, SC, DE, ID and UT.
New Offering -- September 1st, 2026
Ten Specialized Therapy Intensives for Neurodivergent Adults
What if the problem isn’t that you’re failing to adapt—but that you’ve been adapting to the wrong frame?
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For autistic, ADHD, AuDHD, and twice-exceptional adults, conventional therapeutic models can sometimes obscure as much as they illuminate. Neurology may be interpreted as attachment. Adaptation may be mistaken for pathology. Institutional experiences may be reduced to individual symptoms. And the strategies that once protected you may eventually become the very structures you need to outgrow.
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These eight specialized intensives investigate what lies beneath those misreadings. Drawing from Jungian depth psychology, Bowen family systems, attachment theory, trauma frameworks, metacognition, existential psychology, and systems analysis, they examine the deeper architecture of neurodivergent experience—from shadow and individuation to family differentiation, institutional trauma, coercive systems, identity fragmentation, moral injury, and burnout.
This is not therapy designed to help you become more acceptable to systems that misunderstand you. It is an invitation to examine the systems, stories, adaptations, and identities that have shaped you—and determine which still belong to you.
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Ten intensives. Ten different points of entry. One deeper project: coming back into relationship with yourself.
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​© 2024–2026 Raven LeFebvre. All rights reserved.
Specialized Therapy For Neurodivergent Adults
If you are ready for psychotherapy 2.0 and ready to move into deeper layers of therapeutic work around moral injury and the disenfranchisement that comes with being othered - let's connect.
I specialize in the wounding that occurs from traumatic invalidation.
This experience occurs at the societal level for those who are neurodivergent, navigating chronic pain and illness or recovering from scapegoat abuse. It occurs in the workplace and at the familial systems level.
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This patterning can become a wounding that you
may be perpetuating internally - becoming entrenched self-abandonment.
Let's dismantle and deconstruct this together.
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© 2024–2026 Raven LeFebvre. All rights reserved.
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About me
Your Neurodivergence Affirming Therapist
My clinical specialties include late-diagnosed adult neurodivergence, as well as chronic pain and illness- both of which often involve disenfranchised emotional pain and misunderstood needs.
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I address family of origin issues, including scapegoat abuse, enmeshment, emotional manipulation, or neglect and intergenerational abuse/trauma.
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I draw on Bowen Family Systems and Internal Family Systems to assist clients in navigating codependency, attachment styles, enmeshment versus differentiation, and the establishment and maintenance of healthy boundaries.
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I specialize in supporting clients who are navigating late-diagnosed adult neurodivergence (adult autism, adult ADHD, adult AuDHD) and who are unpacking the adult neurodivergent experience.
I also focus heavily in my practice on therapeutic work relating to: chronic pain / chronic illness, burnout, self-abandonment patterns, attachment wounds, parts work, scapegoat abuse, family of origin issues, complex trauma / relational trauma / developmental trauma / C-PTSD, and intergenerational trauma.
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The constellation of issues in which I specialize, often involves an underlying theme of overlooked or disenfranchised and misunderstood realities, emotional experiences and needs.
When this is the experience of encountering the outer world, a tendency to self-gaslight can develop and further perpetuate the damage and fracturing of ones’ internal emotional alignment.
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Let's unpack all of this together.
Affirming Therapy for Late Diagnosed/Identified Neurodivergent Adults
I am a neurodivergent affirming therapist who has been practicing for 22 years. As a therapist, I am compassionate, neurodivergence-affirming, and trauma-informed. ​
I can provide telehealth psychotherapy to you if you are in one of these states: North Carolina, Maryland, Vermont, Massachusetts, Pennsylvania, Minnesota, Florida, Virginia, South Carolina, Delaware, Idaho, or Utah.
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© 2024–2026 Raven LeFebvre. All rights reserved.
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As a Highly Trained Neurodivergent Affirming Therapist, I Specialize in;
Adult ADHD / Adult AuDHD / Adult Autism / AFAB High-Masking Neurodivergence
ACOA / Adult Child of Emotionally Immature Parents / Scapegoat Abuse / Narcissistic Abuse
Authenticity / Unmasking / Burnout
Chronic Pain / Chronic Illness
Codependency / Loving someone with an addiction
Complex Trauma (C-PTSD) / Developmental Trauma / Relational Trauma
Disenfranchisement and Moral Injury
Effects of Emotional Manipulation or Emotional Neglect / Attachment Wounding
Enmeshment / Family Dynamics / Family of Origin / Family Trauma / Intergenerational Patterns / Trauma
Identity Work / Individuation / Differentiation / Boundaries
Healthcare System Trauma / Medical Trauma
Mixed Neurotype Couples/ Family Therapy
Nervous System Regulation
Workaholism and other obsessive and/or compulsive patterns
Women’s Issues including perimenopause and menopause
Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy and Autism, ADHD and AuDHD Assessments
Our Neurodivergent Affirming Therapy and Autism, ADHD and AuDHD Assessment Services
If you are seeking a highly detailed and personalized, thorough, respectful, and clinically rigorous Autism and/or ADHD evaluation, please reach out. We offer comprehensive formal diagnostic assessments designed to provide clear answers, meaningful validation, and practical next steps tailored to your life. Adults across any of the above 12-states can access expert, affirming AuDHD and ADHD evaluations that are trauma-informed, neurodivergence-aware, and centered on accurate, individualized results.
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Neurodivergence Affirming, Specialized and Competent
​Comprehensive and Specialized
In depth evaluation of both Autism and ADHD Traits
Captures nuanced "spiky" profiles
Conducted by neurodivergence-informed specialists
Affirming and respectful, grounded in validation, not pathologizing language
Free of ableism and judgment
Supports authentic self-understanding
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Trauma-Informed with Specialized focus on Neurodivergent Trauma
Accounts of masking, compensatory strategies and appeasement instincts
Differentiates trauma responses from neurodivergent traits
Insightful, detailed, clear reports
Practical guidance for clinical, educational or workplace supports
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Highly Personalized, Detailed and Comprehensive
Personalized Feedback
One-on-one debriefing of your results
Recommendations tailored to your experience and identity
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© 2024–2026 Raven LeFebvre. All rights reserved.
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